Ain't She Pretty?

Meet Ms. Marissa Ann Mayer, Google's vice president of search products and user experience.

For you men out there, what is your reaction? What is it that first attracted your undivided attention - her pretty looks or her job position?

To be brutally honest, our testosterone level shot up. Initially, we are attracted to her pretty looks and after the initial shock and satisfaction of our carnal tendencies, we now realize that she is one of Google's high ranking officers. And mind you, she is also one of those persons hired by Google during its start up operation in 1999. She has the distinction of one of those responsible for what Google is today.

As I was reading some IT related article today, I chanced upon a subject about how women were being treated in this male dominated technical world. The author raised a question why women were being treated more for their appearance than what they are capable of contributing or of their competence in the computer industry.

I’m sure it’s not only in the technology field that this is happening but also elsewhere – in business and other fields of careers and endeavors. In our culture, we proudly say that we have great respect for our women. Though this statement carries with it a semblance of truth that we have respect for women, in reality there is still so much to be desired in relation to the different issues about women today.

Being a father to four lovely girls, it is sad to learn of how women are treated in our society and culture.

Women are the most exploited persons in the world. How many major issues are there today that they have to confront daily around the world – sexual violence, labor exploitation, prostitution, gender discrimination, illegal trafficking (white slavery), and their basic human rights. Ever since man established its own culture and civilization, women have been relegated to subservience. They have been treated as persons of lesser importance.

But how many women have proven that they were intelligently equal or better than men. History itself is not in wanting of women of great achievement in many fields of bravery and or science and even religion. In today’s world, women are also proving their worth in every field of endeavor that makes this world supposed to be a better place for all of humanity.

Sadly, there are still a lot of men out there who needs to be taught how to respect women’s dignity as a human being.

EVANGELIZATION - A Search and Rescue Mission For Christ

Evangelization must not only be a drive to gain more adherents to the faith and to the community; rather evangelization must be defined as a collective effort driven by impassioned witnesses of Christ in a search and rescue of as many men as possible.

This is the overall objective of this year’s Servants of the Lord International Conference held in Baybay, Leyte last 27th to 29th March 2009.

Thus, the organizers of the conference made it clear to one and all that in order for this objective to be achieved, everyone have to work in unison; not merely waiting or being passive but to be more alert and pro-active – a real search and rescue operation of the lost. For the lost will not exert any effort to find the right path, rather it must be the duty of every men of God to find them and secure their spiritual safety.

The main reason why such an order for all SOLD members is being issued is due to what is happening in our world today. According to SOLD International Coordinator Manny Garcia morality and the definition of what is right and what is wrong are being subjected to a relentless attack. Even the community is not spared: there are members who have lain low from attending the community’s services due to emotional issues; pressures from work and family; and most of all because of the lures of a hedonistic world.

Since men are inclined for more actions than mere talks, the highlight of the conference is in the team building activities conducted on the whole of Saturday. The almost five hundred delegates were divided into twenty teams regardless of their provincial or sectoral affiliations or of age or of social status.

In the morning, the teams were tasked to finish five missions in the shortest time possible: raft relay, obstacle course, Takeshi style water bomb, River treasure and an analytical and deductive mental game called Who owns the Zebra. Since these activities require team effort and building their own stratagems, it provided opportunities to build close relationship and camaraderie among each member of the team they belonged to.

When they finish each activity satisfactorily they were able to earn points that entitled them to a sumptuous lunch they themselves cooked complete with all the necessary ingredients. Each of them working as a team, everyone was able to finish all the task assigned. With all the teams having a cook-out along the beach, it was indeed a scene to behold.

“The team building activity just proves that as men of CFC we can work together regardless of age, province, dialect or ministry we serve in, in the end it is still evangelization and our own personal conversion that counts. That no one is too young or too old to serve God as long as we are one in spirit”, said Joemar Salumbides, the head of event.

Not only SOLD members attended the conference, there are also CFC male members serving in other ministries that were present. In fact three members of Tarlac’s Provincial Councils were so engrossed and overjoyed in their participation that they offered their province to be the next host of the SOLD conference. Provincial Council members of three other provinces from Visayas and Mindanao also participated.

During the afternoon, two simultaneous workshops were conducted. One workshop moderated by Willy Padida, is designed to help the delegates how to conduct a proper Christian Life Program for every situation – whether a large one composed of twenty or more participants or even a small one that only has a few expected candidates. Every opportunity must be seized in order to bring in as many men as possible to the flock.

The delegates themselves admitted that it is the individual’s lack of enthusiasm in organizing a CLP and timidity in inviting others that is the main hindrance to their evangelization efforts.

In another workshop moderated by Jun Dujunco, writing and developing their Pastoral Formation (PFO) materials was dealt with. Several topics were given as an example - mostly dealing with the development of their manly characters as being fathers, family providers and their leadership potentials.

The light ceremony during the evening session was a solemn rite initiating every delegate to become real soldiers of the light. Robert Ardiente led everyone in deep contemplation on how to shine through despite their pains, sufferings and insufficiency.

“The overall objective of the ministry is to promote it to the whole [CFC] community as a ministry for men that would go across all ministries. It would not be age defined but would be able to cater to the needs of all men in the community. There is no single track or talk in CFC that addresses the needs of men and SOLD aims to fill in this niche. We also hope that the top leadership in CFC will see this need and help the SOLD ministry to get off the ground in their [respective] areas”, Manny Garcia said.

The message of the Servants of the Lord is loud and clear; the ministry has evolved into an integral part of the whole CFC community. Its ways and means in developing a true man of God must be adopted by all CFC men – from the members up to its top leaders.

Indeed, the real needs of today are men of good and exemplary characters.